Unlearning Monogamy: An Interactive Guide to Polyamory (The Untamed Ember Series) Paperback – January 13, 2026

What if everything you were taught about love was never meant to serve you?Dr. Misty's groundbreaking guide dismantles the myth that monogamy is love's natural state and offers a compassionate roadmap to relationships that honor your authentic self. If you've ever felt constrained by traditional relationship expectations or wondered why wanting more connection feels shameful, this book is for you."Polyamory When You Were Raised for Monogamy" reveals:How religious, cultural, and economic systems created narrow relationship templates that serve institutions, not individualsWhy guilt and fear about exploring polyamory are symptoms of conditioning, not moral guidanceThe difference between healthy polyamory and the myths perpetuated by mediaPractical tools for deconstructing inherited relationship scripts and building authentic connectionsHow to navigate jealousy, communication challenges, and attachment wounds with wisdom and graceThis isn't just another relationship advice book. It's a radical invitation to unwrite the scripts you inherited without consent and author love stories that actually fit your heart.Whether you're curious about ethical non-monogamy, already practicing polyamory, or seeking to understand loved ones who choose alternative relationship structures, Dr. Misty provides the clarity, compassion, and practical guidance needed to create relationships you can breathe in.Perfect for readers of: More Than Two, The Ethical Slut, Untrue, and anyone ready to question everything they've been taught about love, commitment, and what it means to choose relationships consciously rather than conditionally. Read more